Life is a beautiful mess, nobody has it all together. And it’s ok.

Hi, I’m Melinda. I’m a wife, step-mom, former startup entrepreneur, and now, church worker.  I stumbled, partied and drank (not an alcoholic) through my earlier years in life; pursuing happiness, money, significance—never satiated. Self-sufficient, self-reliant, driven, egoistic. Yes, yes, I did have friends, I’m not that terrible, please.


As life would have it, life got hard, like hell kinda hard. It got to the point where I have all the fight sucked out of me, and I knew I couldn’t do life on my own anymore. So, I searched, I questioned about life (loads of them)…and I found God.


I learnt that there is a God. By me denying His existence does not change the fact that there is a God.
A God who is the Creator of the universe.
A God who loves me for who I am, unconditionally. Someone who I don’t need to strive to be loved. Someone who has forgiven my past and present wrongs.
A God who is alive and I can have an on-going relationship with. Someone who hears me, and I can hear when I quiet down in my heart. Someone who I can totally depend on.
A God of miracles and healings!

So, I pursue God. To love Him.


This blog is about my journey towards being more like Him—His love, His kindness, His grace. It is about the joy, struggles and lessons I have learnt.

It is written to give my contemplative thoughts a home. A struggle shared is a heart encouraged. And I’m glad you are here.


Feel free to leave a comment. Happy reading.

P.s.: I’ve migrated back to WordPress and I’m still tidying up some old posts, tags, etc. Do dive in the archives and read any posts, but please excuse the temporary mess.

Carpe Diem! Seize the Day!

You may like to read these posts:

What will we leave behind when we die?
Empathy: the missing link between pain and hope
Missing my mum
How I went from totally disinterested to totally in love with God
How the media is poisoning your marriage
The side effects of divorce

Or this for my latest posts.

Yours truly,
Mel